It has simply irked me to put it down in black and white, why this Female gender is a central plank in Marriage or relationships and their wholesome impact on charecter development in men.
They are the wheel and cog that drives men to attain the goals, visions and dreams they(men) envisioned.
Women are the gasoline, the fire power that lights the raging desire in a man to soar to greater heights. Even the Old adage avers, 'Behind a Succesful Man, theres a Woman'.
Who has ever figured how life would pan out without these beautiful creatures in our life?
Can you compare a happily married man with a bachelor whose only company he got is Nyambura, the kitten in his house?
Figure out this; Jerry returns from work at the twilight tired and jaded. Amid pressure, stress and strains, feeling cranky and dispirited, he staggers in the house. Not even a visage of a female to hug him home, no one to probe him how his day was etc.
The poor bachelor has to do the dishes on a daily, do the laundry, least to mention, spoil the broth in the kitchen owing to his poor culinary skills.
I tend to wax lyrical of this gender, my undying chivalry to them is unparalleled.
A woman is a citadel of love, they epitomised ethics, they are embodiment of ethos and cornerstone on which a family is raised.
In as much as women are such precious beings, a man needs out of this world wisdom in handling them when it comes to conflict resolution, because they're women.
Once an argument ensues, whether it is you the man on the wrong end, kindly swallow your male chauvinism brother, lower your head and let her win.
Peace will prevail.
Women sometimes might cause a stir. A pesky mistake might be amplified to be a quite bigger elephant in the room that will need military precision to square it out.
My friend's house was always like a Parliament. They just couldn't stop arguing.
A lady could make a mistake, flip the blame on the man and barbs, slurs and all imprintables were hurled at each other.
Peace only reigned when he learned to accept all mistakes he never did, conceding defeat in arguments for the sake of his marriage.
Women, may you not lack.
You are a semblance of beauty and brains.
We Men, Love you Women❤❤❤
©️©️Ladman.
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